A Letter to my Fellow Physicians |
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Preface |
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Part I: In the Beginning |
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Responding to Your Diagnosis |
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2 | (1) |
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3 | (2) |
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5 | (3) |
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Understanding the language |
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8 | (2) |
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Understanding how doctors think |
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10 | (3) |
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Diagnosing the person with cancer |
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Defining Your Relationship with Cancer |
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19 | (16) |
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19 | (5) |
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Understanding the message of cancer |
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24 | (4) |
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The cancer/patient relationship |
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28 | (2) |
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Redefining the cancer/patient relationship |
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30 | (5) |
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35 | (20) |
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35 | (1) |
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36 | (1) |
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37 | (6) |
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43 | (1) |
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43 | (3) |
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Five ways to overcome fear |
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46 | (9) |
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55 | (21) |
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55 | (3) |
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58 | (4) |
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62 | (1) |
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63 | (5) |
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68 | (2) |
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Remodeling your living room |
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70 | (6) |
Part II: Choosing Treatment |
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76 | (10) |
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76 | (4) |
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Short-term versus long-term goals |
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80 | (3) |
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83 | (3) |
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86 | (23) |
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86 | (2) |
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88 | (5) |
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93 | (7) |
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Cancer's place in your life |
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100 | (4) |
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Considering your resources |
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104 | (5) |
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109 | (17) |
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Living as long as you can---within limits |
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109 | (3) |
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Taking risks for a big win |
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112 | (3) |
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Developing your medical team |
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115 | (4) |
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Emphasizing the best quality of life |
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119 | (3) |
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Using complementary treatments |
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122 | (4) |
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Overcoming Barriers to Treatment |
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126 | (8) |
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Acknowledging your sovereignty |
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126 | (3) |
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129 | (1) |
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Searching for ultimate truth |
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130 | (4) |
Part III: During Treatment |
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Maintaining a Positive Attitude |
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134 | (16) |
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134 | (5) |
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139 | (3) |
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142 | (4) |
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146 | (4) |
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Maintaining Your Quality of Life |
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150 | (15) |
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151 | (2) |
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153 | (4) |
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157 | (2) |
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Psychological and social quality of life |
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159 | (6) |
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165 | (17) |
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165 | (1) |
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166 | (8) |
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174 | (8) |
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182 | (16) |
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182 | (1) |
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183 | (7) |
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190 | (4) |
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194 | (4) |
Part IV: Remission |
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198 | (8) |
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Doctors' views of remission |
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199 | (3) |
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Patients' views of remission |
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202 | (2) |
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204 | (2) |
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206 | (15) |
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206 | (2) |
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208 | (2) |
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210 | (2) |
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A different kind of treatment |
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212 | (3) |
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215 | (3) |
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218 | (3) |
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Living Comfortably with Uncertainty |
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221 | (19) |
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Practicing living with uncertainty |
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222 | (5) |
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Holding precious and fragile in a cup |
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227 | (5) |
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232 | (8) |
Part V: Relapse |
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240 | (14) |
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But I did everything I was told! |
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240 | (3) |
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243 | (3) |
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246 | (5) |
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251 | (3) |
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Crisis: Danger and Opportunity |
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254 | (13) |
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254 | (4) |
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Balancing danger and opportunity |
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258 | (4) |
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Opportunity knocks softly |
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262 | (5) |
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267 | (16) |
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268 | (5) |
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Fulfilling your heart's desire |
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273 | (4) |
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277 | (6) |
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Your Last Chance for Today |
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283 | (11) |
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283 | (5) |
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288 | (6) |
Part VI: Endgame |
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Playing the Endgame to Win |
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294 | (12) |
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295 | (1) |
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295 | (3) |
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The strategy of the endgame |
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298 | (3) |
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Expressing your character |
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301 | (5) |
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306 | (15) |
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Wanting to feel in control |
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306 | (1) |
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Gaining trust in the future |
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307 | (2) |
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Getting relief from pain and symptoms |
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309 | (8) |
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317 | (1) |
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Creating a statement of your values |
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318 | (3) |
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Living Fully Until You Die |
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321 | (10) |
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322 | (2) |
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324 | (7) |
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331 | (15) |
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331 | (1) |
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332 | (3) |
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Different kinds of warriors |
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335 | (2) |
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337 | (3) |
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Different kinds of martyrs |
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340 | (1) |
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341 | (3) |
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Different kinds of spiritual paths |
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344 | (2) |
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346 | (11) |
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347 | (2) |
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349 | (4) |
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353 | (4) |
A. Resources |
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357 | (4) |
B. The Medical Uses of Hope |
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361 | (5) |
C. Pain Control |
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366 | (3) |
D. Preparing for a Medical Examination |
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E. Values Statement |
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370 | (4) |
F. A Legend of Sovereignty |
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Notes |
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Index |
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